how to answer your women?

salah.
post kali ni patin nak tulis sepenuhnya dalam bahasa melayu. uh ya..bagaimana untuk menjawab perempuan anda (kalau di terjemahkah secara membuta-tuli sahaja..makanya itulah maksud tajuk post ini_) tapi kalau di kupas secara mendalam.. maka mksudnya berbunyi.."bagaimana untuk melayan(answer=menjawab) soalan-soalan kekasih(sebenarnya perempuan) anda."

..ok..ini sgt skema

obviously..eh.secara terang-terangan, mmg telah didapati bahawa post kali ini..dituju dengan teristimewanya untuk kaum adam. wahai kaum adam. mmg anda sendiri telah sedia maklum bahawa kaum anda memang terkenal dengan sifat sensitif yang kurang(atau hampir tiada) perangai buat bodoh..dan saya sendiri pernah mendapat tips dari sahabat saya..bahawasanya, kaum adam perlu sesekali(igt ye..sesekali sahaja) menipu..untuk menambat hati si gadis(fakta yang sgt sedih)..tapi bkn menipu dalam konteks curang ke.. bukan! ini menipu untuk menggembirakan hati si gadis. ***smilee***

ini co
ini lak contoh lirik lagu: ..you would turn your head the other way..so you won't have to listen to what I have to say.."

so guys.pls dun turn your back bila ur gf ckp, atau ask you question okay?!

sebagai kaum hawa yang sgt sensitif dan mudah tersentuh, dan atas keprihatinan saya terhadap rakan-rakan kaum saya yg lain..maka..di bawah ini adalah beberapa point(tatau melayu nya.. apa?) untuk anda menjawab soalan(atau dengan perilaku anda) tehadap kekasih/isteri anda dengan tidak menyakitkan hati mereka.
1, jawab dengan perhatian. bukan sambil jawab sambil sibuk ber'sms' dengan rakan-rakan encik.
2, pls plspls. pandang lah muka mereka mase ckp ngn mereka. n show interest la sikit bila pndang muka tu.. << romantik romantik!!
3, plg pantang...jgn tgk pmpuan kot?? tapi tatahula kan. nowadays, pompuan dh x ksah kot. siap dah bertunang pn leh bahasakan diri mereka syg dgn lelaki lain?maruah taruk kat mana sy pn tatahulah? :D .. moden kan skang..saya kuno :)
4, soalan-soalan mcm.. "dia(pompuan lain) comel tak?".. "kalau dia(pmpuan lain) nak kat awak..dan saya pun nak kat awak...sape yang awk akan pilih?" << soalan-soalan camni.. x payah nye nk pikir2 panjang. kalau tol lelaki tu syg kat pmpuan tu.. xke xpayah nak pikir lg. sbb dalam hati dia pun mmg pmpuan tu ja kan? :D kecuali lah dalam hati tu ada keinginan nak cari yang lain lagi.
5, ..kalau si dia ckp "itu" tak bermaksud..maksudnya "itu". kne ingat..kadang2 dia x suka..dia ade idea lain.. tp dia senyum je n ikut je semua apa yang lelaki tu nak buat. tapi? dia memendam lah ..sampai satu tahap..:D..gaduh lah. knkn?
6, kena yakinkan dia..yang mmg encik xde org lain..dan encik dah x berminat dengan pompuan lain. ni yang pling penting kot.tambah-tambah yang pernah wat salah.bukankah anda perlu mencuba sdaya-upaya untuk mnyakinkan dia semula? pikir-pikirkan lah. :D
7, ha.. kalau nk gi mana-mana..lelaki suka x nak bagitahu kan? berahsia..xnak cakap.bukannye nk mengongkong, tp pikirkan lah. kalau pape jadi kat dia.. jadi kat encik2 ke..x ke mudah kalau msing-masing tahu apa yang masing-masing nga buat?
8, lagi satu faktor(fuh cam wat analisa masa SPM)..kepentingan. mana lah encik2 letak kepentingan syg encik2 tu. no 1?lepas kawan2? atau lagi sedih..lepas pompuan lain? haha. pikir cmni je..kalau ada pmpuan cntik..n ada saya(yg huduh ni) mana yang cik akan slamatkan kalau ada kereta nak langgar kami berdua? jeng jeng jengs. :D
ala..lapar /pening laks.nanti2 saya rajin saya tambah lagi lah.
pokok pangkalnya semua mula dari hati kn? kalau syg.. mesti lah sanggup wat apa ja.okla okla. saya tatahulah dengan perempuan lain..tapi ini cara saya nak lelaki saya menjawab saya ye. tqvm.pls come again later. ;p

diffent people.different tot.

lamanya x blog ni.. rindu nieh. jst dun find the rite time to blog kot,...tight schedule.meeting lecturers.etc etc.~oh ya.. and also kursus. thihihi.. meet new fwens..find new strength, motivated to archive goals(haha.sgt) and identify "things" that goin to be my legacy in 100 years.intresting course i must say..eh i wont tlk about dis more fther. tajuk len tu patin oih, fokus fokus. ades.

ok!!different people.different taught.betullah kan?i came across dis topic while im updating my profile on youtube. sja nak sync all my accounts. giving google more informations on finding me ;p < tah pape. okla. then i notice wktu i checkd my cmmnts and all.. (ade gak tergedik si patin comment) haha. -i once cmmnted on a girl video. tajuk video tu..cam jalan2 termerloh? smthing like that.and my commnt cam ni la lebey kurang >> "siape dia ni? artis ke?? gedik je. haha." mcm bunyi dengki ke eh? tak lah.. i ske je wtching vlog ni.. cam maria elena/anuarhadi/matluthfi nya channel.

nape i cmmnt cam tu?mesti ade reason kn? ok.. sbbnya i dun think the video she posted ada msg in it.kn kn? just a video..yg die menggedik2 buat2 muka?wut??n the best prt is dia sendiri mention dia jst nk menggedik.adoih.. mmg la org ckp..ko x ske..ko xyah tgk. tapi. klo dh tercame across..tertgk la jwbnye.

ni sme atas sensitivity masing2 la..if u think u shud t8care of your appearance as a malay girl..brtudung..at least --make a video that give somthing to viewer. im sure ME,anuarhadi,matlutfi do some research before they making video aite? and the topic they vlog about pn interesting and able to gives input to viewers xkiralah dari segi knowledge, religion and even how to remove ur make up skali pn..do some research and prepare yourslf.at least jgn bg org kutuk you ats sbb u pronounce moisturizer as mos-ter-ri-zer kn. this is jst my opinion je.sbb tu la anuarhadi won must-follow personality.. i heart all of them. plsplspls..keep making videos ^^

ok bawah ni contohnya.tiada kena mengena dgn yang hidup atau yg sudah meninggal dunia ye.oioioi apa lak.. sahsah la ada kena mengena..tp bf-bf si gadis ayu kat bawah ni sila jgn marah ya.. chill LAHH--

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malangnya.. i taktau cmna nk letak youtube-video kat cni. nnt lah.

kenyataan mak..

last friday, when I was driving...mak tetiba kuarkan satu kenyataan.

“dalam tiga2 anak mak..mak plg risaukan fatin……”

aik..awatnya mak?( I asked curiously..) my mom jawab.masa nk lepaih fatin blajaq kat MMU..mak risau fatin. fatin plg manja ngn mak ayah. with dat answer she really touched my heart. dat shows how much makayah kita kenal kita kn.and as fer my dad, dia slalu pesan..”hati jgn baik sgt.nanti kena buli..kena tipu”..but I am so sorry ayah..mak..dat is me. we accept people fer who they are kn mak ayah..like mak ayah accept me kn?..
..i once remember when I was a little girl.. me n my parent pegi pasar malam n I saw dis pakcik buta mintak sedekah. for 7 o 8 years old child..I was crying.n I cried hard..sampai dalam kereta..jenuh mak ayah pujuk. sbbnya? satu-satunya sbb ialah sbb pakcik tu buta dan terpaksa minta sedekah..poor him kan. even now pun..my sensitiveness never shows sign utk kurang. mcm skarang..I will never leave my frens alone when they needs me. ill try my best to help..to comfort…to get along..I akan pergi toilet, just for the sake derang x de kwn nak pergi…but smtimes, some people just dun feel/do the same kat kita...so no wonderlah kan people always take me fer granted.. *smiling*
back to my school time pulak..I was a boyish/ignorance kinda student.dun care much about others in school.have few frens..very few.nmpk keras.but inside..slalu sgt mnangis.sometimes for no reasons.mcm dah jadi hobi lak. I kasar. ’rempang’ and i was kinda famous among teachers. I x buat kja sekola..(padahal most of the teachers mmg kawan2 mak kot..ish) I pnah lari skolah ikut gate blakang..main spirit of the coin la(konon2nya..) tapi 1 ja, bila masa tusyen..I seldom talk.seldom apa?tak ckp pn kot..mcm xsuka lelaki pn ada.as fr me..at dat time la.mcm derang kco2 tu just nk watkan kita(girls) perasan..n im not dat kind of girl..(klo x, da kawen kots) huhu…
..same goes masa study kat MMU.no boy-fren at all.yg betul2 kawan..na-da.can be listed la klo ada pn..tu pn pas knai2 kot ragnarok..ngn YM..mmg diam.diam langsung.. xbergaul..x shine. now only I realized…betapa ruginya myself.. byk sgt benda yang i x explore..myself..my ability..tapi x elok regret benda yang da lepas.dat is our fate kan..just be thankful :)
mm..and now! i da kja kat UM.diffrnt sgt dgn MMU.I used to have my own staff back at MMU dulu as assistant manager.seriously.. kat sana baru I develop myself..attnding meeting with deans,prsidnt..lecturers..students. my nerves, my inferiority semua have to be left behind..tp still I taleh lari dari kasihankan org.tp d sbbkn I was too busy kt MMU dulu..I x rse pape sgt.I spent most of my time kt office.n kerja.fully used.no fb.no youtube.no life.
but bila kat UM..I spent more than 9 hours kat office.sama..sama cm MMU.but here.. office is my life. fer dat I thx you kakak2 n frens whoever accpt me fer who I am. my world smua kat office. as a person like me, with my family in kedah..”manja” konon..and my busy “bestfren”..nthing much I can do..than to rely on them..to be like..to be love. but people can change in a *blink*. :) frens who used to be ur frens..tetiba diam..annoyed dgn you.wut can I say..I tend to show my true colors to persons who I assumed to be close to me. :) ..unlike me, derang ada smuanya..family dkat.. berkeluarga. but this is life kn.wut do I expect? I shudnt wish to be treated like wt i wnna be treated. sape sangka kn..I can cry bcoz of dis.nobody does..but trully. I lve my frens..n when frens hurt our feelin, its really really really hurts. nvrmnd.ill change..klo x mampu ubah..ill quit. hope Tuhan have a bigger plan fer me.

p/s: mybe I shud b stayin in melaka.without frens..without life..

si paten ke-HOMESICK-an. =,=*

ok.homesickhomesiickhommmyyysickkk!! 

dusyummsss.ok ok..dn gt crried away.arini kn tgh homesick rmmber??after last week vacayyy kat lengkawihhh.. rasa cam xnk blk2 cni dah..but 1 thing fer sure.. si paten smaken rajin developing cntent smenjak pulang. kongeratulation patin. weeeee..
tp tu la.. office sgt sunyi lah kakaks2 p training.hve to skip meals. kurus la camneyhh. xbestlah.mybe sbb tu jugak rsa homesick sgt. haish. everybdys is like stressing out.. I dun noe? izit becos of audits people visit? yaw..common. xkan kot? or mybe I’ve been ‘dipulaukan’ becos im ugly? haha. adoi. chillex la..

..but hu cares? next week kn kakak2 da ade.yippeyy!! ok.cukup. igt ni fb ke.. nk mluah2 x puas hati kat cni? dah2.

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..famillyy pichaaa* whch shll mking me even sdder* =,=

;;( our small famileyh,,

and ofcos..my home sweeeeettt home ( well ya…im tryin to relate to the entry tittle obviouslayyy ):

rumah kodiang…

..........and not forgettin rmh aloqstaq a.k.a rumah kelahiran ku.

(ok. pic ni ja yg ada)

sigh*. nak blk…. =,=. mybe..kna ajak 'yaw gerlprens' (..mcm ME x?haha).. ke singapore lg...a day vacay pn cam best. nk tggu bali vacayyy—its likeeee 1 year lgiiiii kowttts….?? klo by dt time da kawen mesti beshkn cik hubby? lh honeyyymon skaleyh knknkn?? (mane mane?mn ko ade hbby lk ni?) phewww..

ihsishihsihs enche bf pn tiada ujung mggu ni. lonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyynyaaaa. sy nk ikot gi ‘beriadah’ pls .;( ;( dah.ok.ngarowt.bye,

oh ya.smlm ada kakak kat kedai mkn bawah rumah.. just wnna share the cnversation lah kn..mase nga nk ngorder..

kakak: kakak(she clled me kakak?wutt??)..muka pakai ape ni.. berseri-seri lah..licin ja..

*i tercengang* masalahnyaaa-- kadang2 aku tertido with my makeup on kot??? nampak sgt lah!

me: ha? ish ade2 jela.. biasa je...

kakak: eh taklah ..btoi ni kakak.. kakak pakai apa ni (sambey cuit2 manja aku..ceh)

me: ala..ni ha..nivea visage..pncuci muka.. (dgn arapan dia pegi_)

..tp cnversation ni berlarutan jugak bebeeerapa ketika.. sampai tny beli kat mane bagai. aduyai..wakaka. sengal la.. nk amik hati org suh makan ctu pun agak2 la kan? ades. tp..pls bersyukur ngn ape yg Tuhan bagi (alhamdulillah)..dan PULANGkan lah brg2 kepunyaan org ye.. :) jgn hidup dengan kesusahan org lain...

jaga-jaga ye. :D

p/s: nk letak gak picha ngn obor-obor. klo leh wak balik kan owseeeemmms?

little balqish..or prefer to be called KISSHY..(video_)

pardon my voice.. suara pas nangis. and my laughter tooo euwwwwwwww-- sho annoying. DENG!!

wawawawa sedih keta rosak wa wa wa wawawa~

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x abes lagi

waaaaaaaa

supposdly i cite kn our situation mse tggu napi kacang dtg kn.. itula..so trpksala tggung sorg2(i mean ngn mak ngn akish) wuwuwuw. but itulah kn..org-org kita ni skarang..

first person yang berenti.. was an iranian guy kots? mana smua org mlayu kita? huh kete lk rusak kt UMs gate..bkn ptut lg brtmbng rse ke? i tau la im not pretty enuf.. ade lk balqish..

dah mcm janda anak 1 pun hade.. but tula.. lets face the fact la yg org mlyu kita ni mcm ni skng.. pndang aku...pandang akish.. blah.

ish.

xbaik lah brburuk sangka plk.. later.. after napi dtg.. ade la 1 prdana v6 dtg. haaa.. ni br la kinda intrsting sket. hahah. a malay guy!! and he seemed cam x nk gerak slagi baby satria i x jalan.

baik kan? n he only talked ngn my mom je. :">

hah! picas will be inserted later lah! -_______________________-!

..n later is now: :D

wuts up with them?

tentang lelaki..em topic i choosed 2 blog as recently i heard a lot from my fwens pasai kaum yg 1 ni..anonymously im going to..hw to say eh??cm wat kn kita sama2 pkiaq..wuts wrong wif them actually?y they cannot stick to 1 girl at a time..n y..y they can't be loyal..and truthfll to their gf.mm..y eh?cerita sme ni..not 100% true la..as i pn slalu mlayang je.
ok!!now..randomly..
Kes A.
Seorg lelaki(j) dan perempuan(v) mrncng utk bertunang n get married.they really hve the chemstry.they complment each other very well.v..seorg yg x prcya sgt cinta..until she met j.j was to her..is a safe guy to be with.jd..v mltakkn hrapan tinggi kt j. ishishihs..
V tried her hardest to protect j becoz the love dat she have with him is insanely too much wah.j jnjikn byk utk v,setia..syg....sblum2nya..j akan bgtahu, apa sj yg dia wat kt v..v x prnah pksa j utk report cmtu.smpai 1 day...v dpt rsekn j dah lain.da kurng sms.da kurang call die..dgn alasan bz.v yg da really inlove wif j..rse pelik...dgn kuasa Tuhan..1 day..v trgerak utk tgk hp j.guess wut she found??j sms pmpuan lain d offce die..
yg sedihnya,v dh berkali-kali pesan jgn sms pmpuan tu kt j.v merajuk..v letakkn syarat utk brbaik..but j, on the other hand..x kisah langsung pasal v.malah v yg trpksa hegeh2 call..sms.mm..n now..j pulak tduh yang v ni ske paksa..dan die rimas..mm.
Itulah lelaki..J sbnrnye..benci v?bosan dgn v?atau..sngaja nk nyakitkn hati v eh?atau mmg die gatal..dan xske komitmen? xde ke rse syg.. cinta kt org yg byk tolong die.. be with him no matter wut. plus.. j is not quite gudlooking pun.
poor V.. she keep trying to gain j's love and attention. sabar ye syg.i kn ade..mari berlesbo-lesbonan mahuu?..ekeke.


Kes b.
This kes i think is more serious thn the first 1.perempuan(m) dan lelaki(y) dah tunang n da nk kawen..tp m selalu dpt byk email2 misteri,n fb2 msg dr girls yg brcreta sal y. camna tu? ni baru tunang... can u guys imagine klo dah kawen?
Rsa benci kat technology..the past will keep chasing us with all these so called technology. but the problem with m...dia slalu xnak bercerita..not every problem solves klo biarkan je.maybe somepeople think..klo diam..sesuatu tu akan reda....camna nak reda?nak biakan m pendam semua soalan2 yg x terjawab tu?sampai bile?m for me dah cukup bersabar dengan y..few times he got caught cheating.depan mata..sms..mm..

i dont know..wuts up with guys actually? the truth is men are like chocolate..-wait too long and only the weird nutty ones are left.
urgh...dah xlh truskan. lapaq. almost a week makan x tentu hala. can anybdy find me a boyfren plssssssss-- :D:D


nnt klo ghajin i sambung lagi yeh~

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